Yesterday I asked Brutus to join me on this blog and He happily accepted. I'm delighted that He did, however I did express some concern of handing over control of "my pet" (I'm a bit OCDy about certain things, and to be honest -sorry to rat You out Sir!- Brutus is a bit....... internet-challenged? *lol* (I say that with a LOT of affection), so when He told me today that He'd tried to add a Picture of the Day pic but had to "abandon" it I kind of had to smile *lol* =)
"I hope I didn't mess up Your template" had me gulp a bit though =P
But the funny thing is I wasn't really worried at all, I actually felt completely calm. Why? Not so sure but I think some of it has to do with confidence. I have confidence in Him, and I have confidence in my own ability to fix it.

You want to know what the blog looked like when I came to check it? ^^

Here ya go then:

Brutus You know I love You don't you!? *mwah* But once You're back home, may I give You a tutorial (please)? Or is that topping from the bottom? ^^ 
But like it says up above; it's our place *Smiles*
OUR place  =) 
Doesn't that sound good? I think it does, so I'll say it again; 

Our place, this is our place.

(OK, I'm gonna stop now, I promise! *LOL*)


I realize that I've said that this blog is gonna be completely topical and well, so far it hasn't really has it? So I'm calling out for inspiration;

What would you like the first topic of discussion to be about?

Today I asked Brutus if He would like to co-edit this blog with me, and to my delight He said He would love to! I think this can be fun! (Although I have to admit I am a bit scared to render control of it! One thing handing over myself, a whole different thing rendering control of my pet! *lol*).

So from now on you'll see two sides of the same coin here, I hope it will make it all the better!
I'm honored You want to share this with me, thank You Sir! 

Please welcome my sweet Sadist & Sir - Brutus!

You might wonder why the blog has the layout it does -I mean it's a TTWD blog right?
Well, here's the reason; my other blog is about me, Brutus, our relationship and TTWD in general. From time to time it involves kink and can be readily described in quite some detail.
However this blog isn't about that. This blog is a purely "theoretic" blog. Of course my own relationship will be brought up, but it will be to bring forth my experiences and my views, not to tell about myself and my life.
Here I want to bring up subjects around TTWD, things that can be discussed, turned & twisted to look at it from different angles and points of view.
I want it to be a place for open reflection and discussion about anything and everything that has to do with this lifestyle.
Apart from Picture of the Day there won't be no explicit kink, all (if any) kink will be of a theoretical and factual nature -no personal stories.
And this is the reason for the blog not looking at all kinky. It's a place to chat, discuss and socialize -it's my own little mini-café of sorts.
I hope you will enjoy your stay here at Le Café Méchant! *LOL*

Best regards, melinda.